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“I dated my wife for four years, then proposed, got married and we lived a wonderful life together,” Tom shared on Reddit.<\/p>\n
“We own a beautiful home, have a one-year-old daughter together and both have successful careers.”<\/p>\n
When Saira became good friends with another woman in the gym, Tom didn’t think too much of it.<\/p>\n
“I\u2019ve been with my wife for seven years and we have a great physical connection and a good s*x life,” he reasoned. “We had our baby.”<\/p>\n
But when Tom came home one day, he got the shock of his life when he opened the bedroom door to see Saira and her new best friend naked.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
“I didn\u2019t think she would ever cheat on me…” Tom said in disbelief. “They had apparently been having a lesbian affair behind my back for several months.”<\/p>\n
Heartbroken, Tom agreed to divorce, especially after Saira chose to stay with the other woman.<\/p>\n
“It was soul-crushing,” confided Tom. “But I\u2019m realising that for someone to live a lie for so long and hide a secret relationship…”<\/p>\n
In anger, he added: “They are ultimately not a good person; therefore, me getting away from this person will make my life better.”<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
Tom confessed: “I thought I was in a happy marriage… I’ll find someone who actually respects me and is a good person.”<\/p>\n
In response, the Reddit community rallied to support Tom after his marital betrayal.<\/p>\n
Change2001 posted: “First realise that you did nothing to deserve this. Your wife made the choice to cheat on you and put your feelings and relationship secondary to her desires.<\/p>\n
“First understand it was not a mistake that she made. It was a series of choices she made to cheat. The choice to not shut down any flirting. The choice to not stop inappropriate physical contact, such as hugs, touches, kisses…”<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
Another Reddit community member said: “I’m sorry this happened to you. Sexuality isn’t an excuse for cheating. It’s just not.<\/p>\n
“You’ve got a positive outlook! You will find someone more suited to you and a better person too.”<\/p>\n
Feeling-Sail9886 quipped “Are you living [in] an episode of Friends?” referencing the popular 90s TV show where one of the characters finds out his wife is a lesbian.<\/p>\n
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